Good Sex Advice

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an introduction, and free stuff!
asksarah wrote in good_sex_advice
Hello! My name is Sarah, and I'm a twice-published rabble-rousing feminist ex-sex worker, currently penning a free sex advice column for

I want to invite anyone seeking advice about sex to write me at sarahatxtoysusadotcom. Every week I get to pick a winning question, and the author of that question gets a free toy (value up to $75) from and an autographed author's copy of my latest book, Sex & Bacon: Why I Love Things That Are Very, Very Bad For Me (Seal, 2008).

This is a really cool promotion and I have no idea how long XToys is going to let me do the contest, but I love giving stuff away almost as much as I love handing out good sex advice, so get your questions in and let me reward you with personally-tailored answers and free swag! I'm queer/kink/trans-friendly, so don't be scared if you're into the freaky shit. I'm about as vanilla as Moose Tracks ice cream myself.

This LJ is for my column so I don't have any entries up yet, but I'm no sock-puppet--if you want to check out my personal account, I'm atmarkedformetal

Thank you, and let me leave you with the most recent winning question:

Q: After an achingly long separation, I'll soon be meeting up with my girlfriend with hopes of giving her the physical worshiping she dearly deserves. Here's the thing, though...she says that after foreplay she gets off mainly on penetration, and though I've done as much prepping as I can in finding a strap-on she'd like, my only real experiences in penetration were two guys that never really got it right for me.

What advice can you give a girl with a first-time silicone appendage who's only ever been on the receiving end? Thrust with the hips or the abs? What if she's on top? Practice into pillows? How the hell do I steer this thing???

(My answer here.)

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