- I need help with my sex life!
- cryeveryday wrote in good_sex_advice
- August 10th, 2009
Ok so I have been with my boyfriend for 5 months now and we love each other very much but there is a problem with the sex. Every time we try to have sex it is so painful. We use lube. I don't know if it's because I'm too tight or he's too big or if maybe he isn't doing enough foreplay to warm me up. He has expressed that he is frustrated and I am too! Sometimes I just drink a lot and that helps a bit. He suggested I buy some kind of numbing spray but I don't know if that is a good idea. I want sex to be enjoyable and fun again. Please help me as I'm really unhappy right now.